Saturday, September 26, 2009

Happy 40th to my wonderful husband. Post is strange but important!


This is kind of a strange blog but I just thought it was meant to be said. Through the years of my marriage, 11 (i think), I've noticed myself getting more and more controlling and trying to defend my actions by insinuating that I'm not getting enough attention and my husbands wasn't being sensitive enough, and why don't I get flowers anymore, why don't we hold hands anymore. So, as the kids were laying with Tony on the rug in the family room this evening watching this little movie called "Yo, Yes" (so adorable), I walked by, looked at him with the kids all cuddled up and thought how come we don't share like this anymore?? So I put it to the test and laid down on the rug next to Tony and he immediately opened his arms and pulled me in with such a huge smile and warmth and I realized that the only reason this wasn't happening was ME. I am going to change that starting right now. Ain't no denying, I have a good man.
Amen

1 comment:

Victoria Stefanakos said...

Tiff, this is so lovely and honest, it makes me teary. (I think I see a bit of myself in there somewhere...) Enjoy. :)